You Need to Fall in Love with Your Soul
Learn to Be Intuitive with Derek Wolf
Linda, this is a conversation you and I need to have. Not the polite kind. Not the surface kind. The kind that reaches under the stress you’ve carried, the love you’ve given, the times you felt unseen, and asks have you truly fallen in love with your soul?
The Missing Love Story
We’ve all been told to fall in love with people, with careers, with dreams, with homes. We spend decades pouring into those stories. But nobody told us the most important one the love story with our soul. The one relationship that follows you through every storm, every scar, every season. The one that asks for nothing but recognition, and in return gives you clarity, courage, and dignity.
Linda, I know your life hasn’t been easy. You’ve carried stress that nobody else sees. You’ve been the one who holds things together when others fall apart. You’ve chosen peace over truth because you thought it was the only way to keep love steady. But in the middle of all that you may have forgotten the love that matters most. The love between you and your own soul.
The Cost of Forgetting
When you live without falling in love with your soul, you live half in shadow. You start waiting for validation from everyone else your partner, your family, your friends, your work. And when it doesn’t come, you feel drained. You pour out and pour out, but nothing fills back in.
Think about it like this: if you had a partner who ignored you for years, how would you feel?
Abandoned.
Dismissed.
Lonely.
That’s what your soul feels when you set it aside, when you place everything else ahead of it. And in return, you feel the ache of emptiness—even in a room full of people.
And yet, I’ve met women who carried incredibly stressful lives hard marriages, health battles, financial struggles and they knew how to love their soul. Even when the world was heavy on them, they stayed anchored in the truth that they belonged to themselves first. That love kept them standing. That love gave them dignity no one could take. That love became their survival.
What Falling in Love with Your Soul Looks Like
It’s not abstract. It’s not fluffy. It’s as real as waking up in the morning and liking who you see in the mirror not because she’s flawless, but because she’s present.
It looks like:
Listening to your inner voice without apologizing for it.
Speaking boundaries with calm confidence because you trust your worth.
Looking at your scars and saying, these are proof I carried love, not proof I failed.
Choosing rest without guilt.
Choosing truth without fear.
Choosing yourself without hesitation.
If you’ve always known how to love your soul, you know what I mean. That’s why you survived the weight life handed you. That’s why you never gave up on yourself, even when others gave up on you. And if you haven’t known this kind of love yet, I promise you it’s waiting. And it changes everything.
Linda, I know how often you’ve chosen to keep the peace. How many times you swallowed truth just to keep love from walking out the door. But when you fall in love with your soul, something shifts. You stop performing. You stop proving. You stop explaining. You simply show up.
The conversations change. The arguments change. The loneliness changes. Because you’re no longer waiting for someone else to give you worth you’ve already given it to yourself. Presence replaces performance. Peace replaces pretending. Truth replaces silence.
Practices to Begin or Deepen
So how do you begin falling in love with your soul or deepen it, if you’ve already known it?
Here are practices you can start today:
Daily check in: Ask yourself each morning,
what does my soul want to hear from me right now?
Write it down. Speak it out loud.
Write a love letter to yourself: Not about achievements. About essence. About who you’ve become. About what you’ve carried. About the beauty you overlook when you’re busy being strong.
One soul led decision each week: This week, choose one thing based on inner guidance, not external approval. Say yes or no from your soul’s voice, and notice the difference.
Create a ritual: For some, it’s a quiet walk. For others, a prayer, a bath, a candle lit for yourself. The point isn’t the ritualit’s that you show your soul you’re paying attention.
If you’ve always loved your soul, this is your chance to honor it deeper. To expand on that love. To thank yourself for carrying you through storms and still standing. If you’ve never loved your soul, this is your chance to begin. There’s no wrong time to start the right love story.
The Promise of Soul Love in Hard Lives
Linda, falling in love with your soul doesn’t erase stress. It doesn’t rewrite history. But it rewrites you. It’s the shift from surviving to living. It’s the dignity of knowing you’ve got nothing to prove anymore. It’s the quiet peace of knowing you belong to yourself first.
For those who have lived scarred and stressful lives and still loved their soul you’re proof that this love is unbreakable. You didn’t just survive. You stayed true to the one love that could never abandon you. You loved yourself through the storm, and that love carried you.
And Linda if you choose this now, imagine what your life looks like. Your relationships stop being about survival. They become about connection. You show up differently. You speak differently. You carry yourself with a grace that others can’t help but notice. And you stop waiting to be chosen because you’ve already chosen yourself.
Closing Reflection
Everything else changes. People come and go. Roles shift. Even your body transforms. But your soul walks with you every single moment. Falling in love with it isn’t optional it’s essential. It’s the love story that makes every other one possible.
Linda, you’ve waited long enough to be chosen. This is the moment you choose yourself. This is the moment you say yes to the love story you’ve been missing the one with your own soul.
And that love, once chosen, will never stop carrying you home.
Derek Wolf
If something in this spoke to you, there is more waiting. I write, interact, and teach more deeply over at www.L2Bintuitive.com, where we explore how to actually live what you feel.
Learn to Be Intuitive with Derek Wolf
Linda, this is a conversation you and I need to have. Not the polite kind. Not the surface kind. The kind that reaches under the stress you’ve carried, the love you’ve given, the times you felt unseen, and asks have you truly fallen in love with your soul?
The Missing Love Story
We’ve all been told to fall in love with people, with careers, with dreams, with homes. We spend decades pouring into those stories. But nobody told us the most important one the love story with our soul. The one relationship that follows you through every storm, every scar, every season. The one that asks for nothing but recognition, and in return gives you clarity, courage, and dignity.
Linda, I know your life hasn’t been easy. You’ve carried stress that nobody else sees. You’ve been the one who holds things together when others fall apart. You’ve chosen peace over truth because you thought it was the only way to keep love steady. But in the middle of all that you may have forgotten the love that matters most. The love between you and your own soul.
The Cost of Forgetting
When you live without falling in love with your soul, you live half in shadow. You start waiting for validation from everyone else your partner, your family, your friends, your work. And when it doesn’t come, you feel drained. You pour out and pour out, but nothing fills back in.
Think about it like this: if you had a partner who ignored you for years, how would you feel?
Abandoned.
Dismissed.
Lonely.
That’s what your soul feels when you set it aside, when you place everything else ahead of it. And in return, you feel the ache of emptiness—even in a room full of people.
And yet, I’ve met women who carried incredibly stressful lives hard marriages, health battles, financial struggles and they knew how to love their soul. Even when the world was heavy on them, they stayed anchored in the truth that they belonged to themselves first. That love kept them standing. That love gave them dignity no one could take. That love became their survival.
What Falling in Love with Your Soul Looks Like
It’s not abstract. It’s not fluffy. It’s as real as waking up in the morning and liking who you see in the mirror not because she’s flawless, but because she’s present.
It looks like:
Listening to your inner voice without apologizing for it.
Speaking boundaries with calm confidence because you trust your worth.
Looking at your scars and saying, these are proof I carried love, not proof I failed.
Choosing rest without guilt.
Choosing truth without fear.
Choosing yourself without hesitation.
If you’ve always known how to love your soul, you know what I mean. That’s why you survived the weight life handed you. That’s why you never gave up on yourself, even when others gave up on you. And if you haven’t known this kind of love yet, I promise you it’s waiting. And it changes everything.
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The Shift: From Pleasing to PresenceLinda, I know how often you’ve chosen to keep the peace. How many times you swallowed truth just to keep love from walking out the door. But when you fall in love with your soul, something shifts. You stop performing. You stop proving. You stop explaining. You simply show up.
The conversations change. The arguments change. The loneliness changes. Because you’re no longer waiting for someone else to give you worth you’ve already given it to yourself. Presence replaces performance. Peace replaces pretending. Truth replaces silence.
Practices to Begin or Deepen
So how do you begin falling in love with your soul or deepen it, if you’ve already known it?
Here are practices you can start today:
Daily check in: Ask yourself each morning,
what does my soul want to hear from me right now?
Write it down. Speak it out loud.
Write a love letter to yourself: Not about achievements. About essence. About who you’ve become. About what you’ve carried. About the beauty you overlook when you’re busy being strong.
One soul led decision each week: This week, choose one thing based on inner guidance, not external approval. Say yes or no from your soul’s voice, and notice the difference.
Create a ritual: For some, it’s a quiet walk. For others, a prayer, a bath, a candle lit for yourself. The point isn’t the ritualit’s that you show your soul you’re paying attention.
If you’ve always loved your soul, this is your chance to honor it deeper. To expand on that love. To thank yourself for carrying you through storms and still standing. If you’ve never loved your soul, this is your chance to begin. There’s no wrong time to start the right love story.
The Promise of Soul Love in Hard Lives
Linda, falling in love with your soul doesn’t erase stress. It doesn’t rewrite history. But it rewrites you. It’s the shift from surviving to living. It’s the dignity of knowing you’ve got nothing to prove anymore. It’s the quiet peace of knowing you belong to yourself first.
For those who have lived scarred and stressful lives and still loved their soul you’re proof that this love is unbreakable. You didn’t just survive. You stayed true to the one love that could never abandon you. You loved yourself through the storm, and that love carried you.
And Linda if you choose this now, imagine what your life looks like. Your relationships stop being about survival. They become about connection. You show up differently. You speak differently. You carry yourself with a grace that others can’t help but notice. And you stop waiting to be chosen because you’ve already chosen yourself.
Closing Reflection
Everything else changes. People come and go. Roles shift. Even your body transforms. But your soul walks with you every single moment. Falling in love with it isn’t optional it’s essential. It’s the love story that makes every other one possible.
Linda, you’ve waited long enough to be chosen. This is the moment you choose yourself. This is the moment you say yes to the love story you’ve been missing the one with your own soul.
And that love, once chosen, will never stop carrying you home.
Derek Wolf
If something in this spoke to you, there is more waiting. I write, interact, and teach more deeply over at www.L2Bintuitive.com, where we explore how to actually live what you feel.
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